10,000 Fists to Freedom

Are you committed to making your dreams come true in the next 90 days?

No, I mean REALLY committed – as in "Failure is Not an Option" type of committed. 

If you are, then you should be nodding enthusiastically at this point, ecstatic that your dreams are already a reality, and that the short amount of time between now and you meeting those dreams is nothing more than a logistical issue. You should know in your heart of hearts that you attaining your dreams in a very short amount of time is only a matter of working through some minor details.

If that last paragraph doesn't describe you, then I submit to you that you are not fully committed to making your dreams come true NOW, Commitment because if you were, you would be as excited and as confident as the person who was described in that paragraph.

The problem is that – as a general rule – we say that we are committed, and we may in fact actually be taking steps in the right direction, but in all actuality our own internal belief systems are keeping most of us from actually believing that success is possible soonernot later!

I have talked a lot about the Law of Attraction on this blog, and I stand by everything that I have said about using that power in order to create a wonderful life for yourself. However, I submit to you now that even if you don't believe in the power of the Law of Attraction, the raw power of your desire and your belief should be enough to change the fabric of your reality in order to make your dreams come screaming towards you at breakneck speed.

However, here is the reality of the situation:

Most people don't have what it takes to make that kind of a commitment. Most people don't have the belief and the sheer, unadulterated confidence in themselves to make grandiose statements about the success that is already theirs, even if the evidence is not yet there to back it up. 

Most people simply don't believe!

That is what this post is about, and that is why I chose the title '10,000 Fists to Freedom'.

As I was out running this morning (at 6:30am, thank you very much!) I was listening to one of my favorite "running bands" – Disturbed. Now, their music could be called anything but politically correct, which I'm sure is why I like them so much. One of the other reasons why I like them is because their music exudes energy and power. For me, it's impossible to not get amped up when listening to them.

When listening to the title track for their album Ten Thousand Fists, it struck me that an amazingly small percentage of people truly have what it takes to make an honest and effective commitment to attaining a goal in a short period of time. As in, oh, I don't know – about 10,000 people out of something like every 1,000,000 people.

That's a pretty small percentage – only 1% in fact.

However, rather than have a negative reaction to that fact, I turned it around into a positive, and the following challenge is the result:

I challenge you – dear reader – whether you are reading this post on June 6, 2007, its original posting date, or if you are reading it on June 6, 2207, to ask yourself if you truly have what it takes to make a commitment to attaining a challenging goal over the next 90 days.

I'm not talking about some mamby pamby crap like losing 10 pounds, getting another 100 readers for your blog, or cleaning out your garage.

No, I am talking about hardcore, scary, going to take everything you have to make it happen kind of goals. Things more like this:

  • Losing 35-45 pounds in 90 days
  • Becoming financially independent in 90 days
  • Moving to a new home in 90 days
  • Starting a measurably profitable business in 90 days
  • Turning your life around 180-degrees in 90 days

Those are the kind of goals I am talking about here. Those are the kind of goals that only about 1% of you who are reading this will have what it takes to commit to, and to actually achieve.

Are you offended that I only think 1% of you have what it takes?

Good! Then prove me wrong! Put your scary/fantastic/amazing goal in the comments section below and put your money where you mouth is.

The comment will be date-stamped, so in 90 days you will have the opportunity to come back here and post again about your victory, or you'll have the opportunity to avoid this blog like the plague in 90 days because you don't want to be seen skulking around here with your tail between your legs…

C'mon! Let's see what you've got! In fact, let's see what your readers have got as well! Put a link to this post on your blog and challenge your own readership to take on the 90-day challenge. If you write about personal growth/personal development, then your readers should be ready, willing, and able to take on such a challenge.

In fact, I'll put my money where MY mouth is as well, because my 90-day goal is to be financially independent by the end of that 90 days. So, since I already know I will be a success, I'll sweeten the pot:

Anyone who puts a comment on this post with a measurable goal that can be compared to where they are now vs. where they will be in 90 days – and accomplishes it – will get a cool $100 cash straight from me to you.

Don't believe it? Why don't you "put up or shut up" and drop a comment below letting the world know what your goal is?

I DARE YOU. 

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  • Labo,

    That is definitely a more realistic goal! :) It's been almost 3 weeks since your first post. You should be seeing some results even this early in the game.
  • Labo
    Hi

    Aaron that was a major typo I actually meant 42 lbs!!
  • Labo,

    Very glad to see you setting some goals for yourself that are really going to require you to put forth a serious effort! :)

    I love what you said about being a slimmer driver - that's a great way to combine those 2 goals in your mind.

    90 lbs in 90 days is a lot, though, from a health perspective. Most fitness professionals - myself included - don't recommend losing more than about 2 pounds of body fat each week.

    I emphasize body fat because it IS possible to lose more actual weight than that in any given week, but if you are starving yourself, you will lose muscle tissue, and also sabotage your metabolism. The last thing you want to do is end up as a skinny fat person!
  • Labo
    Hi Aaron

    I first come across your site last year and set my self some goals which I changed but never achieved. I was thinking about the 90 day challenge last week and thought I am ready to nail it this time! So as of the 13th May 2008. I decided to stick with the 2 goals I had before which are:

    To lose 901bs
    Pass my driving test.

    Since setting these goals last week I have lost 81bs and know I WILL SUCCEED and be a slimmer driver by 10th August 2008.
  • Holli Jo,

    I am truly grateful to be able to help, motivate, and inspire people in any way, so thank you very much for all of the positive feedback!

    I am frequently reminded of the need to keep this blog unique so that it doesn't just melt unnoticed into the growing pile of blogs on the Internet, and one of the ways that I do that is to endorse this site as a community, not just a blog.

    So, responding personally as often as I can to reader comments is just me putting my money where my mouth is! :)

    Thanks, Holli Jo!
  • Aaron:

    Thanks for the encouragement, and thanks for pointing me in the direction of problogger and your new site The 3 Alchemists. These are both some great resources! I wish you success with your new blog, by the way.

    And thanks again for being so personable and real with your readers. It's inspiring that someone as busy as you read and responds to our posts.

    THANKS!!!
  • Holli Jo,

    Thank you for sharing your update with me, and I want to assure you that you have internalized what this challenge was about to begin with - taking the necessary steps to make something happen!

    I firmly believe that one of the biggest reasons why people do not succeed in the attainment of their goals is because they do not consistently take the necessary actions in order to bring their goals to life.

    Even in my own life as the author of this challenge, I have learned things in the past 90 days about laser focusing on specific tasks, and you can bet that what I have learned will become apparent over the next 90 days!

    If I have motivated you in any way to get the ball rolling towards the attainment of your goals, Holli Jo, then I have done my part. The rest is up to you, and I have confidence that you will take the ball and run with it from this point forward!

    On a more specific note, if you aren't already a regular reader of Darren Rowse's blog, the knowledge to massively succeed as a blogger is contained in the pages of his blog, so I highly encourage you to check out ProBlogger.

    Also, I have just started a new blog (BRAND new, in fact) where I will be taking apart the ins and outs of how I have made money blogging, so you can look for some additional info there. That blog is called The 3 Alchemists and is a joint venture with myself and 2 of my mastermind partners.
  • Aaron:

    I wanted to come back and give you an update. I posted 90 days ago about two things -- having a new job, and making money from blogging and writing.

    Well, I don't yet have a new job, but I feel confident that one is forthcoming.

    I'm not making money from blogging yet. BUT, I did create a blog I've been wanting to create for a long time. I did it! Momentum is building slower than I had hoped, but I am taking the steps necessary to make it happen.

    For that, I thank you for the kick in the pants. :) Things will just get beter from here.
  • Shauna,

    Very much obliged for your positive and uplifting comment!

    You are so right that every single step is a part of the process. We don't always have to accomplish the "big" goal in order to learn from and enjoy the journey.

    I remember when I was a kid I was reading a Reader's Digest and someone had asked a mother or father if they had ever failed at being a parent. The very appropriate response?

    "Everyday."

    We learn from the journey, not the destination. Then, when we apply what we've learned, then we can accomplish even bigger and better things in the future.

    Life is just cool like that! :)
  • Hi, Aaron and all;

    I am SO enjoying reading everyone's posts here, and what is really striking is how many people have said 'oh, well, I'm out'...because they missed a day or a task. Commitment isn't easy, but remember to pat yourself on the back for even being willing to put yourself 'out there', as most people around you NEVER WOULD.

    This challenge has brought so many people closer to their goals than they otherwise would have been, and in the process has no doubt changed a lot of lives. For all of us who are already in this 'self development' business, we know it's not easy, but every step and learning experience and 'aha' moment is worth the trip. Each step, each choice is worthwhile and important and one further than where you were before you took it. Enjoy the process!

    Thanks, Aaron.
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