Comments on: 7 Ways to Become a Positive Person http://www.todayisthatday.com/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/ Thu, 29 Jul 2010 03:35:20 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Lara http://www.todayisthatday.com/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-4862 Lara Sat, 10 Jul 2010 00:28:52 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-4862 I really want to be a positive person, reading this has made me realise that it can happen and I don't have to 'pretend' to be positive. I'm not generally a negative person but with a stressful job and a busy personal life too, it is all starting to bring me down and I am worried I cannot see the end of the tunnel.<br><br>Reading this has changed my perspective and I really feel that being a more positive, open minded person can make others feel positive too.<br><br>Thank you Aaron.<br><br>Lara I really want to be a positive person, reading this has made me realise that it can happen and I don't have to 'pretend' to be positive. I'm not generally a negative person but with a stressful job and a busy personal life too, it is all starting to bring me down and I am worried I cannot see the end of the tunnel.

Reading this has changed my perspective and I really feel that being a more positive, open minded person can make others feel positive too.

Thank you Aaron.

Lara

]]> By: Minidass http://www.todayisthatday.com/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-4838 Minidass Mon, 14 Jun 2010 15:29:56 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-4838 Good article. I lyk it vry much. Good article. I lyk it vry much.

]]> By: cj_jordan http://www.todayisthatday.com/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-4797 cj_jordan Mon, 05 Apr 2010 03:57:43 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-4797 Thanks for this Aaron,<br>well put indeed, I feel better already.<br><br>I am living at home with my mother and she is a very very frustrating person at times, she is always negative and complains and brings me down. I always get affected by her words and end up being a cranky person to the outside world.. i don't want to be that person, I want to be a positive person! This was the first time i'd ever searched for advise on the internet and I feel like someone understand what I want already.<br><br>Thanks again<br>CJ Thanks for this Aaron,
well put indeed, I feel better already.

I am living at home with my mother and she is a very very frustrating person at times, she is always negative and complains and brings me down. I always get affected by her words and end up being a cranky person to the outside world.. i don't want to be that person, I want to be a positive person! This was the first time i'd ever searched for advise on the internet and I feel like someone understand what I want already.

Thanks again
CJ

]]> By: Dan & Jennifer http://www.todayisthatday.com/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-4747 Dan & Jennifer Fri, 04 Dec 2009 05:00:25 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-4747 that's great, so happy to hear it! <br><br>one tip: note and appreciate every little improvement, everything that goes well. we tend to be very hard on ourselves, i.e. we want to see the whole problem solved really fast or we say it's not working... when in truth most people give up when they're 75% or more there.<br><br>most importantly, have faith that it can be done. what you believe (good or bad) is how it's likely to go, most every time. that's great, so happy to hear it!

one tip: note and appreciate every little improvement, everything that goes well. we tend to be very hard on ourselves, i.e. we want to see the whole problem solved really fast or we say it's not working… when in truth most people give up when they're 75% or more there.

most importantly, have faith that it can be done. what you believe (good or bad) is how it's likely to go, most every time.

]]> By: onthemend http://www.todayisthatday.com/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-4746 onthemend Fri, 04 Dec 2009 04:57:38 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-4746 i am currently dealing with a VERY difficult mother in law and your web site has opened a major door for me ..... i will try everyday to be positive and to look for the good ........ i will give this a try and post in a week my experience....thanks in advance!!!!!!! i am currently dealing with a VERY difficult mother in law and your web site has opened a major door for me ….. i will try everyday to be positive and to look for the good …….. i will give this a try and post in a week my experience….thanks in advance!!!!!!!

]]> By: Shine With Grace: Positive Blog Network http://www.todayisthatday.com/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1855 Shine With Grace: Positive Blog Network Tue, 02 Oct 2007 17:00:34 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1855 [...] Setting goals and working hard to achieve them?  Today is that Day provides you useful information on personal development, goal setting and the law of attraction.  Wanna find a companion on your way to success?  You may also find your personal development partner with the platform there.  To start with, listen to Aaron shares on the 10 Things You Can’t Do with the Law of Attraction,7 Ways to Become a Positive Person and many more. [...] [...] Setting goals and working hard to achieve them?  Today is that Day provides you useful information on personal development, goal setting and the law of attraction.  Wanna find a companion on your way to success?  You may also find your personal development partner with the platform there.  To start with, listen to Aaron shares on the 10 Things You Can’t Do with the Law of Attraction,7 Ways to Become a Positive Person and many more. [...]

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]]> By: Links Make the World Go ‘Round http://www.todayisthatday.com/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1852 Links Make the World Go ‘Round Sat, 25 Aug 2007 20:40:24 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1852 [...] 7 Ways to Become a Positive Person– Aaron over at Today is That Day does a great job of covering how to be a positive person, which is relevant to the articles I’ve posted recently on how to defeat negativity: Negative Media, Negative Influence, and Causes and Cures of Unhappiness. [...] [...] 7 Ways to Become a Positive Person– Aaron over at Today is That Day does a great job of covering how to be a positive person, which is relevant to the articles I’ve posted recently on how to defeat negativity: Negative Media, Negative Influence, and Causes and Cures of Unhappiness. [...]

]]> By: aaron http://www.todayisthatday.com/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1851 aaron Thu, 23 Aug 2007 10:07:35 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1851 Lyman, I don't know what I enjoyed more - writing this article, or the incredibly positive comments that I've gotten since I did it! :) Very glad you liked it, and I'm happy to send the link love. You have built up an <b>awesome</b> collection of free content over there on your site, and I want to highly encourage people to take advantage of it! Lyman,

I don’t know what I enjoyed more – writing this article, or the incredibly positive comments that I’ve gotten since I did it! :)

Very glad you liked it, and I’m happy to send the link love. You have built up an awesome collection of free content over there on your site, and I want to highly encourage people to take advantage of it!

]]> By: Lyman Reed http://www.todayisthatday.com/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1850 Lyman Reed Thu, 23 Aug 2007 06:05:37 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1850 It's articles like these that make this blog one of my favorite reads, Aaron. Like Mike said all the waaaay up there, I can't see going through this list and not having a shift toward positivity. And thanks for that juicy keyword link as well! Sweet... :) It’s articles like these that make this blog one of my favorite reads, Aaron. Like Mike said all the waaaay up there, I can’t see going through this list and not having a shift toward positivity.

And thanks for that juicy keyword link as well! Sweet… :)

]]> By: aaron http://www.todayisthatday.com/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1849 aaron Thu, 23 Aug 2007 02:46:01 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1849 Thanks, Sully! I appreciate the positive feedback, and I'm definitely a big fan of following your heart. That's where the fun is! :) Thanks, Sully!

I appreciate the positive feedback, and I’m definitely a big fan of following your heart. That’s where the fun is! :)

]]> By: AgentSully http://www.todayisthatday.com/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1848 AgentSully Thu, 23 Aug 2007 02:01:05 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1848 Nice one! Lots of similar ideas as in my favorite book by Andrew Matthews: "Follow Your Heart." Nice one! Lots of similar ideas as in my favorite book by Andrew Matthews: “Follow Your Heart.”

]]> By: aaron http://www.todayisthatday.com/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1847 aaron Thu, 23 Aug 2007 00:28:13 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1847 BB, Much obliged for the return visit and thanks for adding some quality advice to the list! As much as our past is a part of who we are, once it's done, it's done. Learn from it, but then leave it there! And forgiveness is definitely an internal thing, and whether it is directed towards ourselves or to others, getting clear of negativity through forgiveness falls right in line with leaving the past where it belongs. Awesome stuff - thanks again for sharing! BB,

Much obliged for the return visit and thanks for adding some quality advice to the list!

As much as our past is a part of who we are, once it’s done, it’s done. Learn from it, but then leave it there!

And forgiveness is definitely an internal thing, and whether it is directed towards ourselves or to others, getting clear of negativity through forgiveness falls right in line with leaving the past where it belongs.

Awesome stuff – thanks again for sharing!

]]> By: aaron http://www.todayisthatday.com/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1846 aaron Thu, 23 Aug 2007 00:20:51 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1846 Bob, Welcome - very glad to have you here! I do my best to keep the inspirational content flowing, so look for more in the future, and thanks for the visit! Bob,

Welcome – very glad to have you here! I do my best to keep the inspirational content flowing, so look for more in the future, and thanks for the visit!

]]> By: Blog Bloke http://www.todayisthatday.com/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1845 Blog Bloke Thu, 23 Aug 2007 00:18:02 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1845 #8 Leave the Past in the Past. #9 Forgive Others including Yourself. That's good advice for all of us. Thanks for dropping by the other day. Cheers! ...BB #8 Leave the Past in the Past.

#9 Forgive Others including Yourself.

That’s good advice for all of us. Thanks for dropping by the other day.

Cheers!

…BB

]]> By: Bob http://www.todayisthatday.com/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1844 Bob Wed, 22 Aug 2007 22:43:36 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1844 This is my first visit to your blog and I like what I see! Thank you for such inspirational content! This is my first visit to your blog and I like what I see! Thank you for such inspirational content!

]]> By: aaron http://www.todayisthatday.com/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1843 aaron Wed, 22 Aug 2007 18:30:46 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1843 Simone, Well I am now happy to include you among that list of great readers - welcome to the community! :) Having visual reminders is such a powerful tool, especially these days when everyone is always in such a hurry. It sounds like during your women's retreat there was lots of visual stuff going on, and I'm sure it was seriously empowering. If you don't already know about her, Christine Kane holds retreats for women as well, and she is a total gem. You can check out her site at http://www.christinekane.com. Again - welcome, Simone! Simone,

Well I am now happy to include you among that list of great readers – welcome to the community! :)

Having visual reminders is such a powerful tool, especially these days when everyone is always in such a hurry. It sounds like during your women’s retreat there was lots of visual stuff going on, and I’m sure it was seriously empowering.

If you don’t already know about her, Christine Kane holds retreats for women as well, and she is a total gem. You can check out her site at http://www.christinekane.com.

Again – welcome, Simone!

]]> By: Simone http://www.todayisthatday.com/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1842 Simone Wed, 22 Aug 2007 13:36:33 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1842 Hi Aaron, What a great group of readers you have! This is my first visit to your site and I’ve unearthed lots of gems of wisdom… I particularly loved your comment about visual affirmations. I recently created a “vision map” at a women’s retreat (think a bunch of women in the forest, talking, singing, crying, swimming in freezing seas and burning letters on the beach) and it was a great way to visualize my goals. I really liked having visual reminders of the intangible stuff – happiness, friendship, stimulation and kindness. Thanks again. Hi Aaron,
What a great group of readers you have! This is my first visit to your site and I’ve unearthed lots of gems of wisdom…
I particularly loved your comment about visual affirmations. I recently created a “vision map” at a women’s retreat (think a bunch of women in the forest, talking, singing, crying, swimming in freezing seas and burning letters on the beach) and it was a great way to visualize my goals. I really liked having visual reminders of the intangible stuff – happiness, friendship, stimulation and kindness.
Thanks again.

]]> By: Viv http://www.todayisthatday.com/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1841 Viv Wed, 22 Aug 2007 10:51:06 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1841 Oh wow! Am I glad I read this - just what I needed after a fairly difficult week - this post puts everything in perspective again - thanks Aaron! Oh wow! Am I glad I read this – just what I needed after a fairly difficult week – this post puts everything in perspective again – thanks Aaron!

]]> By: aaron http://www.todayisthatday.com/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1840 aaron Wed, 22 Aug 2007 00:09:22 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1840 Stacey, Welcome to the Today is that Day community, and thanks for sharing your thoughts! One of the great things about timeless concepts such as keeping a positive attitude is that it applies to all people of all ages, shapes, and sizes. As far as '<em>The Science of Getting Rich</em>', most people 'round these parts are <b>very</b> familiar with that book and similar concepts, as I frequently talk about the Law of Attraction. Personally, I've read it 3 times already. Thank you much for the recommendation! I see that your blog is just getting off the ground and you've got a great theme going. Happiness and success should be a part of all aspects of our lives, not just one or two. Feel free to send whoever you would like over to check out this post, and I'll thank you in advance for helping to share the concepts discussed in the post itself, as well as here in the comments section. :) Stacey,

Welcome to the Today is that Day community, and thanks for sharing your thoughts!

One of the great things about timeless concepts such as keeping a positive attitude is that it applies to all people of all ages, shapes, and sizes.

As far as ‘The Science of Getting Rich‘, most people ’round these parts are very familiar with that book and similar concepts, as I frequently talk about the Law of Attraction. Personally, I’ve read it 3 times already. Thank you much for the recommendation!

I see that your blog is just getting off the ground and you’ve got a great theme going. Happiness and success should be a part of all aspects of our lives, not just one or two.

Feel free to send whoever you would like over to check out this post, and I’ll thank you in advance for helping to share the concepts discussed in the post itself, as well as here in the comments section. :)

]]> By: aaron http://www.todayisthatday.com/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1839 aaron Wed, 22 Aug 2007 00:02:47 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1839 Priscilla, Much obliged for adding me as part of what is already shaping up to be a great list of personal development bloggers! I really appreciate it, and I would love to keep the project going. Look for a post coming up in the near future with some names that will bring great value to the list! :) Priscilla,

Much obliged for adding me as part of what is already shaping up to be a great list of personal development bloggers! I really appreciate it, and I would love to keep the project going. Look for a post coming up in the near future with some names that will bring great value to the list! :)

]]> By: Stacey Allison http://www.todayisthatday.com/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1838 Stacey Allison Tue, 21 Aug 2007 20:56:23 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1838 This is a great post on becoming a positive person. I am a high school counselor and these same principles go a long way with every age group. I noticed your book links and as I have read those books myself, I wanted to refer another one to you as it seems we have similar interests. The Science of Getting Rich is based around the law of attraction and creative thought as well. The author is Wallace Wattles. I just recently launched my own website and blog -- <a href="http://www.bemorebalanced.com/WordPress/?" rel="nofollow">bemorebalanced.com/WordPress/</a> -- and my goal is to share daily ideas with readers on how to create a more balanced life. I think becoming a positive person is definitely a tip for finding balance. If you don't mind, I'd love to refer people over here to this post. Thanks again, Stacey Allison This is a great post on becoming a positive person. I am a high school counselor and these same principles go a long way with every age group. I noticed your book links and as I have read those books myself, I wanted to refer another one to you as it seems we have similar interests. The Science of Getting Rich is based around the law of attraction and creative thought as well. The author is Wallace Wattles.

I just recently launched my own website and blog — bemorebalanced.com/WordPress/ — and my goal is to share daily ideas with readers on how to create a more balanced life.

I think becoming a positive person is definitely a tip for finding balance. If you don’t mind, I’d love to refer people over here to this post.

Thanks again,
Stacey Allison

]]> By: Priscilla Palmer http://www.todayisthatday.com/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1837 Priscilla Palmer Tue, 21 Aug 2007 20:33:27 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1837 I have just started a list of outstanding personal development bloggers. I added you as one of the original top 5. I'm asking that each of you add your favorites to the list. Please, join me and carry it on. I have just started a list of outstanding personal development bloggers. I added you as one of the original top 5. I’m asking that each of you add your favorites to the list. Please, join me and carry it on.

]]> By: aaron http://www.todayisthatday.com/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1836 aaron Tue, 21 Aug 2007 16:35:48 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1836 Thanks, Jeannette - glad you liked the post! And you are 100% correct - our <b>power of choice</b> is our key to success. Things happen in the world, and from our point of view, they are either good or bad. However, regardless of how we feel about them, we can choose to have a positive or a negative response. I choose the positive! :) Thanks, Jeannette – glad you liked the post!

And you are 100% correct – our power of choice is our key to success. Things happen in the world, and from our point of view, they are either good or bad.

However, regardless of how we feel about them, we can choose to have a positive or a negative response. I choose the positive! :)

]]> By: Good Vibe Coach http://www.todayisthatday.com/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1835 Good Vibe Coach Tue, 21 Aug 2007 16:12:08 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1835 Fabulous information again, Aaron! I especially like the reminder in #1 that we really can choose how we feel! Exercising that power of choice has to be one of the biggest keys to successful deliberate creation. Great post! Jeannette http://goodvibecoach.com http://loaplayground.blogspot.com Fabulous information again, Aaron! I especially like the reminder in #1 that we really can choose how we feel! Exercising that power of choice has to be one of the biggest keys to successful deliberate creation.

Great post!

Jeannette
http://goodvibecoach.com
http://loaplayground.blogspot.com

]]> By: aaron http://www.todayisthatday.com/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1834 aaron Tue, 21 Aug 2007 15:10:31 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1834 Stephen, Thank you so much for sharing that story about you and your Dad! It demonstrates clearly the power of picking up these types of positive habits. Also, by thinking of the good before you get on the phone, you put yourself into a state of mind that protects you even if something negative does come up. That is one of the best things about keeping a positive attitude. It is both a great offense, and smashing defense at the same time! :) Good stuff, Stephen - thanks again for sharing! Stephen,

Thank you so much for sharing that story about you and your Dad! It demonstrates clearly the power of picking up these types of positive habits.

Also, by thinking of the good before you get on the phone, you put yourself into a state of mind that protects you even if something negative does come up.

That is one of the best things about keeping a positive attitude. It is both a great offense, and smashing defense at the same time! :)

Good stuff, Stephen – thanks again for sharing!

]]> By: aaron http://www.todayisthatday.com/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1833 aaron Tue, 21 Aug 2007 15:05:25 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1833 Mike, Thanks for the positive feedback, and I'm glad you enjoyed the post so much! It is my sincere desire that people will go out into the world and do these things on a <b>very</b> regular basis! :) Mike,

Thanks for the positive feedback, and I’m glad you enjoyed the post so much! It is my sincere desire that people will go out into the world and do these things on a very regular basis! :)

]]> By: aaron http://www.todayisthatday.com/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1832 aaron Tue, 21 Aug 2007 15:02:40 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1832 Stephen, You are indeed on the right track, and I highly recommend that you use the "Adversity University" concept to brand yourself! It totally rolls off the tongue, it is incredibly easy to remember, and the name is powerful and informative. I say go for it! Stephen,

You are indeed on the right track, and I highly recommend that you use the “Adversity University” concept to brand yourself!

It totally rolls off the tongue, it is incredibly easy to remember, and the name is powerful and informative. I say go for it!

]]> By: Steve http://www.todayisthatday.com/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1831 Steve Tue, 21 Aug 2007 14:50:28 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/7-ways-to-become-a-positive-person/#comment-1831 hi Aaron, I can relate to your 'Reach for the Golden Nugget' or in other words, looking for the good in others. I had some massive transformation with my dad when I completed some of my past with him. After I had the courage to make this massive quantum leap with our relationship I figured I would be transformed for good - not the case. The next week I was talking to my dad and he says, "What the hell, are you taking pills or something?" I gotta say that I normally would of lost it and reacted in response to his attack but this time was different. This time I knew how much my dad cared about me and I knew his concern for me was coming from a place of love and compassion. Nowadays, every time I get on the phone with my dad I think about how compassionate he is before getting on the phone. To my amazement this worked better than expected. It's been over a year that I've been doing this consistently and I can easily go up to my dad and give him a big hug without any problem. A big deal for me and my dad. What I learned? - people aren't as scary as we make them out to be and persistence at anything pays off BIG TIME! If you want to read more about me and my dad, check out my post, 'How To Become A Good Listener' at http://www.stephenmartile.com/?cat=13&paged=6 Cheers, Stephen Martile Personal Development with NLP www.stephenmartile.com hi Aaron,

I can relate to your ‘Reach for the Golden Nugget’ or in other words, looking for the good in others.

I had some massive transformation with my dad when I completed some of my past with him. After I had the courage to make this massive quantum leap with our relationship I figured I would be transformed for good – not the case. The next week I was talking to my dad and he says, “What the hell, are you taking pills or something?”

I gotta say that I normally would of lost it and reacted in response to his attack but this time was different. This time I knew how much my dad cared about me and I knew his concern for me was coming from a place of love and compassion.

Nowadays, every time I get on the phone with my dad I think about how compassionate he is before getting on the phone. To my amazement this worked better than expected. It’s been over a year that I’ve been doing this consistently and I can easily go up to my dad and give him a big hug without any problem. A big deal for me and my dad.

What I learned? – people aren’t as scary as we make them out to be and persistence at anything pays off BIG TIME!

If you want to read more about me and my dad, check out my post, ‘How To Become A Good Listener’ at http://www.stephenmartile.com/?cat=13&paged=6

Cheers,

Stephen Martile
Personal Development with NLP
http://www.stephenmartile.com

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