Comments on: I Need You to Cheat on Your Spouse… http://www.todayisthatday.com/i-need-you-to-cheat-on-your-spouse/ Thu, 29 Jul 2010 03:35:20 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: aaron http://www.todayisthatday.com/i-need-you-to-cheat-on-your-spouse/#comment-1335 aaron Tue, 17 Jul 2007 12:50:08 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/i-need-you-to-cheat-on-your-spouse/#comment-1335 DR. SPOON!! Long time no see, Doc - great to see you 'round these parts! Inspiring you has been something I've enjoyed as long as I've known you, so I am truly grateful to still be able to be a positive impact on your life. I am also very glad to know that you're reading my blog and staying in touch. Good to hear from you, Doc! :) DR. SPOON!!

Long time no see, Doc – great to see you ’round these parts!

Inspiring you has been something I’ve enjoyed as long as I’ve known you, so I am truly grateful to still be able to be a positive impact on your life.

I am also very glad to know that you’re reading my blog and staying in touch. Good to hear from you, Doc! :)

]]> By: Dr. Spoon http://www.todayisthatday.com/i-need-you-to-cheat-on-your-spouse/#comment-1334 Dr. Spoon Tue, 17 Jul 2007 12:17:07 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/i-need-you-to-cheat-on-your-spouse/#comment-1334 Hey Aron, You made a good analogy by using the boy or girl in high school. you truly do need to be inspired to achieve ultimate success. In fact, you have inspired me to be inspired. I'm gonna get up right now and do what needs to be done to achieve what I want to right now. Hey Aron,
You made a good analogy by using the boy or girl in high school. you truly do need to be inspired to achieve ultimate success. In fact, you have inspired me to be inspired. I’m gonna get up right now and do what needs to be done to achieve what I want to right now.

]]> By: Friday Funnies from Today is that Day | Today is that Day http://www.todayisthatday.com/i-need-you-to-cheat-on-your-spouse/#comment-1333 Friday Funnies from Today is that Day | Today is that Day Fri, 13 Jul 2007 15:29:36 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/i-need-you-to-cheat-on-your-spouse/#comment-1333 [...] you cheat - I find this one particularly ironic because I'm quite sure it was due to the post 'I need You to Cheat on your Spouse', which is actually about focus and goal setting, not actual cheating. Oh well, maybe that person left here with a renewed sense of purpose! [...] [...] you cheat – I find this one particularly ironic because I'm quite sure it was due to the post 'I need You to Cheat on your Spouse', which is actually about focus and goal setting, not actual cheating. Oh well, maybe that person left here with a renewed sense of purpose! [...]

]]> By: aaron http://www.todayisthatday.com/i-need-you-to-cheat-on-your-spouse/#comment-1332 aaron Fri, 15 Jun 2007 15:48:38 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/i-need-you-to-cheat-on-your-spouse/#comment-1332 JoLynn, You hit the nail right on the head! <blockquote>There’s no room for excuses when you are truly committed to accomplishing important goals.</blockquote> In fact, I would add to that by saying that there is no <em>desire</em> for excuses, either! If you truly want to attain a goal in life, you don't work towards it because you feel that you <u>have</u> to - that is where excuses creep in. Someone who is truly inline with the accomplishment of their goals <b>wants</b> to get there, so excuses never even enter into the equation. Thanks for adding that valuable bit of advice to the conversation, JoLynn! :) JoLynn,

You hit the nail right on the head!

There’s no room for excuses when you are truly committed to accomplishing important goals.

In fact, I would add to that by saying that there is no desire for excuses, either! If you truly want to attain a goal in life, you don’t work towards it because you feel that you have to – that is where excuses creep in.

Someone who is truly inline with the accomplishment of their goals wants to get there, so excuses never even enter into the equation.

Thanks for adding that valuable bit of advice to the conversation, JoLynn! :)

]]> By: aaron http://www.todayisthatday.com/i-need-you-to-cheat-on-your-spouse/#comment-1331 aaron Fri, 15 Jun 2007 15:43:26 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/i-need-you-to-cheat-on-your-spouse/#comment-1331 Tim, Without knowing more about you and spending time with you, the first thought that came to my mind when you said you didn't want your goals that bad was that you should consider some soul-searching to decide what you <b>do</b> want. Desire is the key to success in any endeavor, so that is the necessary first step. Although a comment box is far too small of a medium to effectively discuss a long-term goal setting strategy, the bottom line is that it boils down to what you WANT to do with your life. Not what you <em>think you can do</em>, but what you actually <b>want to do</b>. I would start by making a list of the things that you enjoy doing - whether or not you could actually accomplish goals or make money by doing them. Once you have that list, it will be a starting point for you to take the next steps. Also, although I don't remember the exact URL's, go back through the Link Love series on this blog. There have been several entries about goal setting and future planning that are more than worth the time to read through. Here is the URL to the Link Love category page: <a href="http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/category/link-love/" rel="nofollow" rel="nofollow">Link Love Category</a> Tim,

Without knowing more about you and spending time with you, the first thought that came to my mind when you said you didn’t want your goals that bad was that you should consider some soul-searching to decide what you do want.

Desire is the key to success in any endeavor, so that is the necessary first step. Although a comment box is far too small of a medium to effectively discuss a long-term goal setting strategy, the bottom line is that it boils down to what you WANT to do with your life.

Not what you think you can do, but what you actually want to do. I would start by making a list of the things that you enjoy doing – whether or not you could actually accomplish goals or make money by doing them. Once you have that list, it will be a starting point for you to take the next steps.

Also, although I don’t remember the exact URL’s, go back through the Link Love series on this blog. There have been several entries about goal setting and future planning that are more than worth the time to read through. Here is the URL to the Link Love category page:

Link Love Category

]]> By: JoLynn Braley http://www.todayisthatday.com/i-need-you-to-cheat-on-your-spouse/#comment-1330 JoLynn Braley Fri, 15 Jun 2007 14:20:26 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/i-need-you-to-cheat-on-your-spouse/#comment-1330 Good point Aaron, you definitely need to have that passion in order to persist in achieving your goals. That also means that you will eliminate all of the excuses that you've been using to stop yourself previously. There's no room for excuses when you are truly committed to accomplishing important goals. ;) Good point Aaron, you definitely need to have that passion in order to persist in achieving your goals. That also means that you will eliminate all of the excuses that you’ve been using to stop yourself previously.

There’s no room for excuses when you are truly committed to accomplishing important goals. ;)

]]> By: Tim http://www.todayisthatday.com/i-need-you-to-cheat-on-your-spouse/#comment-1329 Tim Fri, 15 Jun 2007 13:43:04 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/i-need-you-to-cheat-on-your-spouse/#comment-1329 Ok, but how do you acheive that level of passion for something? Looking at my goals, it's clear to me that I don't want them that bad. Looking back through my life, including my teen years, I can honestly say I've never felt the way you describe about anyone, so I can't call upon those memories, either. Ok, but how do you acheive that level of passion for something? Looking at my goals, it’s clear to me that I don’t want them that bad. Looking back through my life, including my teen years, I can honestly say I’ve never felt the way you describe about anyone, so I can’t call upon those memories, either.

]]> By: aaron http://www.todayisthatday.com/i-need-you-to-cheat-on-your-spouse/#comment-1328 aaron Thu, 14 Jun 2007 22:17:25 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/i-need-you-to-cheat-on-your-spouse/#comment-1328 Patricia, You make an excellent point about the fact that we can use those types of memories in order to raise our vibrations. Thanks for pointing that out! Many people have trouble having a high vibration about something they are trying to manifest because they don't have that thing yet. However, by just thinking back to other magical moments or even time periods in your life, you can remember what magic feels like. That makes it a lot easier to pull future rabbits out of hats. :) Patricia,

You make an excellent point about the fact that we can use those types of memories in order to raise our vibrations. Thanks for pointing that out!

Many people have trouble having a high vibration about something they are trying to manifest because they don’t have that thing yet. However, by just thinking back to other magical moments or even time periods in your life, you can remember what magic feels like.

That makes it a lot easier to pull future rabbits out of hats. :)

]]> By: Patricia Schiavone http://www.todayisthatday.com/i-need-you-to-cheat-on-your-spouse/#comment-1327 Patricia Schiavone Thu, 14 Jun 2007 20:07:45 +0000 http://www.todayisthatday.com/blog/i-need-you-to-cheat-on-your-spouse/#comment-1327 So true. In fact, it is the recall of moments like these you mention here, those who help me most reaching the high-vibrating state I look for at the beginning of my meditation. One of the memories that take me all the way up the scale is the first sight of a piano player who became my boyfriend a few days later. That very first sight was charged with an amazing energy and brought together the knowledge that we were going to meet and be close. Today I know I was implementing the LoA that night. Thank you for the distinction between things we just want and things we love. Patricia So true.

In fact, it is the recall of moments like these you mention here, those who help me most reaching the high-vibrating state I look for at the beginning of my meditation.

One of the memories that take me all the way up the scale is the first sight of a piano player who became my boyfriend a few days later. That very first sight was charged with an amazing energy and brought together the knowledge that we were going to meet and be close. Today I know I was implementing the LoA that night.

Thank you for the distinction between things we just want and things we love.

Patricia

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