Who Wants to Live Forever?

I have been a fan of the Highlander movies and especially the TV show for years. It's classic "good vs. evil" stuff, with an immortal modern vs. ancient twist. If you've never seen it, I highly recommend that you check it out.

For anyone who has no idea what it is about, here are the basics:

There are a group of "immortals" who are humans here on earth, just like the rest of us. They live forever, but they are constantly battling each other for "the prize". The prize is all of the knowledge that man has accumulated literally since the dawn of time, and these immortals can be killed in only one way:

To quote the {ahem} immortal words of Sean Connery in the very first Highlander movie, "If your head comes away from your shoulders, it's over."

HighlanderSo, these immortals cannot die unless their head is cut off, at which time all of their knowledge and experience is then transmitted to the immortal who did so – in a spectacular display of lightning and explosions, I might add.

Pretty cool, right? You cut off someone's head and you gain all of their knowledge and experience!

Yeah, okay. Actually it's pretty barbaric, but I assure you, the Highlander franchise has style, especially the TV series, with actor Adrian Paul playing the part of our favorite good guy immortal, Duncan McLeod (of the clan McLeod).

So, other than my obvious enjoyment of the Highlander saga, what does any of this have to do with personal growth and development? 2 things, actually:

1) Consider the question of living forever. Assuming it was possible – but only for you and a handful of others (who you don't get to pick) – would you do it? 

On one hand, you get to live forever, and since time is not an issue, you can learn and experience everything and anything with absolutely no constraints, since there will always be more time.

On the other hand, since you don't get to pick the handful of other "immortals," the people that you love and care about will die. It's not a question of "if," but rather a question of when and how.

A morbid concept for a personal development blog? Not when you think about it from the point of view of considering how much your life is about you vs. how much your life is defined by the people around you. 

2) If you chose the fact that you DID want to live forever, what would you do? I mean, everyone has hobbies that they would like to spend more time on, but an immortal would certainly be able to do something more constructive than reading more books or taking more naps. So, what would you do?

If you would NOT want to live forever, then ask yourself this question:

"Am I living my life like the clock is ticking and every moment is literally gone forever, never to come again?"

Oh, and one more thing. One of the members over at Personal Development Partners has contributed in a thought-provoking way to many conversations, and I am so very grateful to have gotten to know him.

His username over at at PDP is FloridaAviator, and with regard to his personal development journey, he had this to say:

"Making decisions based upon a compass to guide me instead of a clock to bind me has been a very enlightening and powerful revelation."

Dave, I know I grabbed your quote without first asking for permission, but, to be honest, that is great stuff, and I wanted to share it with the world. My compass told me to share your wisdom, and I want to thank you once again for putting forth such a profound concept.

You, sir, are the man.

By the way, this post was inspired by nothing less than me hearing the theme song to the Highlander franchise, and it is SO worth a listen. The song is performed by Queen, and is called Who Wants to Live Forever?

Are you getting the most Life out of your Moments?

Remind yourself with Offline Merchandise!

I am legally obligated to tell you that you are not allowed to keep this file. I am morally obligated to tell you that I really don't care what you do with it, as long as you gained at least one moment of introspection from your time here today.

Queen – Who Wants to Live Forever?

p.s. – This idea is very much open to conversation in the comments section below, or over at Personal Development Partners. And my answer to the question of living forever? Oh, I think you know! 

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  • I would definitely NOT want to live forever.

    Your post reminded me of a quotation:

    “Millions long for immortality who don’t know what to do on a rainy Sunday afternoon.” (Susan Ertz)

    Now, I *do* know what to do on a rainy Sunday afternoon -- I keep quite busy all the time, in fact -- but I don't think I would be as motivated to do anything today if I knew I had infinite tomorrows, and if I wasn't adding value to the world, I don't think my perpetual existence would be in anyone's best interest. I would also fear what the future would be like, and be very lonely without my loved ones.

    I try to live each day like it's my last, but I don't always succeed. My goal right now is to get to a point where I do live like that, so I guess that's a step in the right direction.

    I also have this posted above my alarm clock:

    "This is the beginning of a new day. You have been given this day
    to use as you will... You can waste it or use it for good. What you do
    today is important because you are exchanging a day of your life for it.
    When tomorrow comes, this day will be gone forever. In it's place is
    something you have left behind... Let it be something good" (Anonymous)
  • Patricia
    If we accept that we are all part of the same Source Energy, which has no time.. then we are eternal, either we like it or not.

    The good ;) thing is that we forget everything every 80 years and it looks as if we are starting all over again.

    Would I like to be eternal and remember it? Well... YES, counting on my keeping good physical and mental health all the way, because in order to be happy, I can't be short-sighted, deaf or unable to walk.

    What would I do with eternal time? Mostly the same I do now but more: I'd read more books, I'd meet more people, I'd draw and paint more horrible pictures, I'd learn to sing well, I'd learn to play every musical instrument, I'd learn to speak very language, I'd go to more concerts, I'd swim more.

    Patricia

    p.s. The eternal 'human' quality claimed on PD's books is the only part that my intellect has a hard time believing. :)
  • Patricia
    Ups! I forgot!

    I agree that FloridaAviator's quote is great! Thanks for highlighting it!
  • Everytime I think of this question, I remember the comical yet dark movie Death Becomes Her. It is frightening to live forever under those circumstances, so I think the answer to that question, for me at least, may depend on the circumstances.
  • I don't know too many women who would be able to appreciate the Highlander Saga...but that could just be the ladies that I am hanging around with...if I did not age, I think it would be pretty groovy, except for seeing all your loved ones die...that would bite.
  • Steve8867
    YES I DO!
    The Human condition as it is now is unacceptable!
    We live too short a span, we are FAR too fragile(illness, killed or crippled by almost anything)!

    Hell, we only start living by age 30 or 40 (after learning some things and getting established).

    So sign me up if there is an alternative!
  • With good health and good mental acuity, I'd take it. I'm not sure about the whole head cutting off, always looking over my shoulder part though.

    I'm also a fan of the Highlander series and I always wondered that myself. I've recently started assessing my day based on how much in order my life was. Have I done everything that I could possibly do that I want to do? In other words, did take the opportunities presented to me today? Am I good with my family and friends? Do I hold any ill-will toward anyone? If I'm good on those things I feel like I'm living life to the fullest. I could get struck by a bus or lightning and I would feel as though I lived. I couldn't always say that.

    In Spirit,
    Nneka
  • Haven
    Yeah...I would want to live forever. Sorry, it's still not a hard choice for me. To see the entire progression of the world and its people. Wow.

    Oh and you could go around all super-badass with a motorcycle and katana if you felt so inclined. I couldn't post without adding that in, my bad.
  • John
    My answer is simple, no. I would not want to live forever and have to watch those I love die around me.
  • Bob
    If I wouldn't grow older and weaker I'd definitely go for immortality, ok so everyone I know will die, but then again I couldn't stand being with the same person for an eternity, I'd probably go insane after a couple of hundred years.
    As for what I would do, I would do the same things I do now, only have them last longer.

    But really, immortality is overrated, quality over quantity.
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