Who Wants to Live Forever?

I have been a fan of the Highlander movies and especially the TV show for years. It's classic "good vs. evil" stuff, with an immortal modern vs. ancient twist. If you've never seen it, I highly recommend that you check it out.

For anyone who has no idea what it is about, here are the basics:

There are a group of "immortals" who are humans here on earth, just like the rest of us. They live forever, but they are constantly battling each other for "the prize". The prize is all of the knowledge that man has accumulated literally since the dawn of time, and these immortals can be killed in only one way:

To quote the {ahem} immortal words of Sean Connery in the very first Highlander movie, "If your head comes away from your shoulders, it's over."

HighlanderSo, these immortals cannot die unless their head is cut off, at which time all of their knowledge and experience is then transmitted to the immortal who did so – in a spectacular display of lightning and explosions, I might add.

Pretty cool, right? You cut off someone's head and you gain all of their knowledge and experience!

Yeah, okay. Actually it's pretty barbaric, but I assure you, the Highlander franchise has style, especially the TV series, with actor Adrian Paul playing the part of our favorite good guy immortal, Duncan McLeod (of the clan McLeod).

So, other than my obvious enjoyment of the Highlander saga, what does any of this have to do with personal growth and development? 2 things, actually:

1) Consider the question of living forever. Assuming it was possible – but only for you and a handful of others (who you don't get to pick) – would you do it? 

On one hand, you get to live forever, and since time is not an issue, you can learn and experience everything and anything with absolutely no constraints, since there will always be more time.

On the other hand, since you don't get to pick the handful of other "immortals," the people that you love and care about will die. It's not a question of "if," but rather a question of when and how.

A morbid concept for a personal development blog? Not when you think about it from the point of view of considering how much your life is about you vs. how much your life is defined by the people around you. 

2) If you chose the fact that you DID want to live forever, what would you do? I mean, everyone has hobbies that they would like to spend more time on, but an immortal would certainly be able to do something more constructive than reading more books or taking more naps. So, what would you do?

If you would NOT want to live forever, then ask yourself this question:

"Am I living my life like the clock is ticking and every moment is literally gone forever, never to come again?"

Oh, and one more thing. One of the members over at Personal Development Partners has contributed in a thought-provoking way to many conversations, and I am so very grateful to have gotten to know him.

His username over at at PDP is FloridaAviator, and with regard to his personal development journey, he had this to say:

"Making decisions based upon a compass to guide me instead of a clock to bind me has been a very enlightening and powerful revelation."

Dave, I know I grabbed your quote without first asking for permission, but, to be honest, that is great stuff, and I wanted to share it with the world. My compass told me to share your wisdom, and I want to thank you once again for putting forth such a profound concept.

You, sir, are the man.

By the way, this post was inspired by nothing less than me hearing the theme song to the Highlander franchise, and it is SO worth a listen. The song is performed by Queen, and is called Who Wants to Live Forever?

Are you getting the most Life out of your Moments?

Remind yourself with Offline Merchandise!

I am legally obligated to tell you that you are not allowed to keep this file. I am morally obligated to tell you that I really don't care what you do with it, as long as you gained at least one moment of introspection from your time here today.

Queen – Who Wants to Live Forever?

p.s. – This idea is very much open to conversation in the comments section below, or over at Personal Development Partners. And my answer to the question of living forever? Oh, I think you know! 

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  • Caiphas Paxton
    Ah, here is the paradox. To be immortal is to be condemned to Hell itself. To be born, to live, and to die is paradise realized. What is life with out its joys, its passions, its trials and tribulations. What would one do with eternity? To know all and see all through out history and time forever. Ultimately you would pine for death, beg to have your memories erased, oh to start again fresh and new when the world is ripe for discovery!

    I've often thought as God being life itself. To be self renewing, to experience all that encompasses being alive from the simple amoeba, to the flowering vine, to being human. So often we are taught that the reward for a moral life is the gift of eternal life. Yet we confuse this with living as our individual selves for all eternity. This is the mistake, for if God gives us a soul it is a piece of the power that expresses itself in all living things. To be cast out from paradise would be to be condemned forever to exist with out the possibility of death or renewal.

    Why do the biblical angels cast out of heaven hate us so? Because they can no longer experience what it means to be truly alive, they envy us, oh do they weep for being condemned to eternal existence, the madness they must experience, the gnashing of teeth.

    So my advice, do not pray for eternity, but realize that being alive is itself paradise, even with its pain and suffering. For even after death life springs eternal, and if your spark of life is renewed, perhaps you will live to see a another day, not as yourself, but new and ready to experience the process of living all over again.
  • Scott,

    That certainly depends on the person's belief system. Many people (myself included) believe that we just transition from this plane to the next one where our knowledge is released and added to the greater whole.

    On the other hand, I'm also one of those people who will be 149 and still planning my 150th birthday party! :)
  • Scott
    Why would anyone want to die? Doesn't your life lose meaning if all your memories are gone? Who wants to be non existent, at any time?

    Who wants to live to 150, just ask someone who is 149.
  • Nomad,

    That would entirely depend on the world that the author (you) wanted to create!

    I'd say to use your imagination and play with the possibilities. When you aren't limited by what people "know" to be true, then you aren't limited at all.

    Have some fun with it - that would be the best advice that I could give! :)
  • nomad88
    I'm trying to write a story about a woman that lives forever (in reality, her elegant form, and dark cat-like eyes, is already on the way out of this solar system: this is true). What would it be like to live forever? (... given this planet will no longer be.)

    How do I write a story about a her? The woman that lives forever.

    Any suggestions?

    Nomad
  • Nomad,

    Thanks for sharing that unique bit of poetry!
  • nomad88
    Aaron:

    Is
    knows not time

    There is no compass
    beyond time

    That of Is
    knows time

    And a compass, too

    Nomad
  • I guess just to give us incentive to get off our butts and start exploring the many points of the compass before the straight line runs out! :)
  • nomad88
    FloridaAviator:

    "Making decisions based upon a compass to guide me instead of a clock to bind me has been a very enlightening and powerful revelation."

    But why does time go in a straight line and a compass leans in all directions?
  • I love the highlander series. I would love to live forever.

    I could really relax as there WOULD always be tomorrow. Hell I could spend a lifetime just kicking back. Then spend my next lifetime catching up and getting everything done from the last century.

    Money would not be a problem as eventually even crappy investments would pay off.

    I always did think there was something wrong with spending your life getting to a point where you really do know a thing or two and then having to check out.

    I could go on and on. I hate the urgency of life. I really do just get to everything as I can and do not worry about much. Drives my wife crazy as she worries about everything.

    I just turned 49 and look like I am 35 because I just don't worry about things I cant do anything about.

    Wish I had more time to live life and enjoy all the things I will not have time to get to in this lifetime.

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